Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Cancer and the graveyard shift

A woman in my office told me a few days ago about research done at the Harvard School of Public Health that showed working the night shift means increased cancer risk. I did some diligent googling and found all the news coverage on it.

The World Health Organization commissioned the study, which included research from 44 scientists in 10 countries. The research is pretty convincing, including everything from panel studies of night shift workers to research with mice. As a result, the WHO classified night shift work as a "probable carcinogen", right up there with things like UV rays and diesel exhaust. Wow!

Scientists can't precisely pinpoint the mechanisms at work in the body, but they think it has to do with disrupting the body's circadian rhythm, which somehow can stimulate cancerous cell growth by suppressing production of melatonin.

In any case, this is interesting to me for many reasons. Unfortunately and ironically, it happens to be that many in the health care industry are the ones working night shifts! It's interesting to me that behavioral and lifestyle things such as what shift you work can impact something I view as very biological, cancer. It probably should be no surprise, since of course much of how we treat our bodies affects our health. But still, I found this intriguing.

Guess I will have to be sure not to take the night shift in the sociology lab coding regression models in Stata......

References:

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Fabulous video

Thursday, June 18, 2009

What kills you, cross-nationally

The Japanese eat very little fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or the Americans.

On the other hand, the French eat a lot of fat and also suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or the Americans.

The Japanese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or the Americans.

On the other hand, Italians drink excessive amounts of red wine and also suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or the Americans.

Conclusion: Eat and drink what you like. It’s speaking English that kills you.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

My companions



I work from home quite extensively this year. If not for our wonderful neighborhood and our fabulous apartment, it would be tough. But I have the added bonus of two furry friends who constantly keep me company.


Thursday, February 19, 2009

Holy cow this is racist!

The New York Post shockingly printed this cartoon...

The page before it is a picture of Obama signing the stimulus bill. I'm not kidding.

The Post claims that this is based on the incident of some monkey shooting in Connecticut, and they are (as of now) standing by the cartoon. 

Now, even if this is not meant to be racist and was an honest mistake, how could you stand by this? The racist undertones are certainly there, with all the centuries of insinuations of blacks being like savage monkeys. And it's the page after the picture of Obama signing the stimulus! How could readers who are going through the paper NOT jump to thinking of Obama?

I am not going to get into the original intent. However, now that it's there, the Post needs to issue an apology. Seriously. 

If you are interested in signing a petition about this sponsored by Color of Change, an organization that works for Black Americans political incorporation, amongst other things, it is here.

Monday, February 16, 2009

Gender and the Ballet

For Valentine's Day, Samir and I went to a special V-day show put on by the Pennsylvania Ballet called "Love and Longing". I was worried I would get bored like I do at classical music concerts. I don't think one's love of the action of dancing predicts one's love for watching dancing, so even though I love ballet, I wasn't sure how it would go. I need not have worried. I absolutely adored it!

But aside from my gushing love of the show, there were some lovely moments of traditional gender ideas being stripped away. The first was an interaction between my own husband and I, that if someone else were watching I think would find amusing in a feminist kind of way. I looked at the program and noticed there was not one, but two intermissions. I got a bit worried. How long was this going to be? Would Samir get bored and detest any future outings to the ballet?? I non-chalantly told Samir, "I think there may be two intermissions. . . " He looked at me. "Of course, there's three acts." I say, "How do you know that?" He says, "The ballet is always three acts." I say, "How do you know that?" He says, "Haven't you ever been to the ballet before?" He had, three times. 

The next was a part of the ballet. The second act of the ballet was a pieces were twelve dancers were supposed to be twelve roses. They all wore these red satin billowy shin length skirts that moved so beautifully when they turned and spun and jumped. The catch is that 6 of the 12 dancers were men. The women were wearing these skin colored leotards on top. For the first few minutes, I could hardly tell the men and women apart. (Please remember that ballerinas are not known for their curvy figures). It was pretty cool, sometimes there were traditional pas de deuxs (partner dancing, more or less) with a man and a  woman, and sometimes there were single gender pas de deux. Overall, it was so interesting to watch and mull over the whole time, how my eyes kept trying to pick out the men from the women but couldn't. 

Lastly, it was interesting combination of people in the audience. There were the wealthy, heterosexual couples. They were mostly older, in beautiful expensive suits and dresses, sitting in the best seats. I imagined them having come to the ballet for years, or even generations. Then there was heavy representation of gay men, recognizable not by any stereotype, but because they too were clearly on Valentine's Day dates. I was marvelling at the odd coupling of old wealth (which I assume to be Republican and conservative on the whole), and gay men (which I assume to be quite progressive on the whole). 

Overall, it was a lovely evening. What better than to enjoy the ballet, and also get to enjoy an interesting evening of gender norms breaking as well? 

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Indulgences are back!

Remember indulgences? I hadn't heard of them since my tenth grade European History class, when we learned how priests would sell people a "get out of punishment" free card for their sins. Until today, when I read a very interesting New York Times article on the return of indulgences, which of course spurred me to check them out for myself. The Roman Catholic Church brought indulgences back in the year 2000 officially without much fanfare. They've been on the rise under the new pope, however, and are making some ground in the United States.

Priests aren't allowed to sell indulgences anymore. However, people's "charitable contributions" can be taken into account when priests are deciding who should receive an indulgence. Apparently there is a thick book, the "Manual of Indulgences", that discusses all the intricacies of indulgences. On the one hand, I would love to read that: all the intricacies of what can get someone an indulgence and how it works. On the other hand, I feel like centuries old church law has to make for some dry reading.

Apparently most US Catholics aren't interested in indulgences. Could this be the result of a generation European History teachers speaking caustically about indulgences?  I certainly hope not. More likely, it's the result of US Catholics falling more on the liberal end of the Catholic spectrum, as indulgences have been most popular in dioceses with traditionalist bishops. Still, in some places they are apparently being met with enthusiasm. For instance, a diocese in Brooklyn is advertising indulgences on their website. I find it all quite interesting, really: the interaction of traditional religious rites and beliefs, religious leaders, contemporary American Catholics and contemporary American society.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Down for the count

My poor husband has the flu. He was on the couch all day with a fever. For those of you who don't know his immune system as well as I do, it is the immune system of steel. While I fall ill rather often with colds, sinus infections, flus, nasty Indian intestinal bacteria, and weirdo American gastrointestinal illnesses, he is pretty much never sick. Sometimes we both go to bed with a stuffy nose, or headaches, something. He wakes up in the morning fine, and I wake up in the morning with a full blown head cold, sore throat, trouble swallowing... you get the picture. It's infuriating for me, the immune weakling of the couple.

However, I can say that one more time, Pton's communist health care has done me well. You may remember a few months back I was on the Pton health services watch list, having apparently been tagged "unhealthy" and at a high risk (along with young kids, pregnant moms, and people with immune diseases). My free flu shot seems to have actually worked, as I have yet to fall ill. Samir was anti-flu shot, and did not get one. We figured out this him-sick-me-healthy is pretty much an epidemiological impossibility without the flu shot scenario. There is no possible way I could be fine and he could be down for the count for several days otherwise.

Let me tell you, we will never miss our flu shots in this house!

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

A sad fact about the gym?

Samir and I have the amazing fortune of living a block and a half away from our gym. Literally, we can walk there in under five minutes. I'm guessing most of you know what I mean when I say I would probably never go (particularly in the winter) if it were more than a 10 minute walk, but the close location means we go all the time. It's a new gym, and wonderfully clean and usually empty, save the first week of January when it suddenly was packed. After a week, however, everyone must have already forgotten their New Year's resolutions, and it was back to a manageable level of crowding.

Onto the point of this post. I noticed in our pilates class one week that out of 20+ people in the class (all women except for Samir), only myself and one other woman had wedding/engagement rings. I was astounded. The class spanned many ages. Where were all the married people? I was hoping there was a selection effect in place for pilates, and it simply was attracting the single folk. I started keeping an eye out the rest of the time. Yoga: same. Spinning class: same. Free weight: same. On the machines: SAME! This is heading me toward a sad truth: women care about their fitness far more before they are married than after. I don't believe all these single ladies are searching for guys at the gym, but I would not be surprised if the premium on fitness (and the accompanying premium on a hot body) is much more pre-marriage than post-marriage.

Ladies (and gents), let us remember the many benefits of fitness beyond trying to have a "hot body", perhaps seen as an advantage in getting a guy (or girl). Building heart health, which prevents heart disease. Having more energy. Building bone density, preventing osteoporosis. Building lean muscle, which helps prevent injuries, improves your metabolism, and so on. Stretching, which prevents aging. Also preventing high blood pressure, high cholesterol, strokes, cancer... And the MANY other benefits that have been shown: better memory, increased concentration, better sleep, less anxiety, less stress, lower risk of depression, better digestion, higher self-esteem, improved coordination and balance, better immune system, fewer menstrual cramps, improved blood flow in your whole body...

They say men tend to lose weight when they get married, whereas women tend to gain weight. In essence, partners' eating habits tend to converge to the mean, which is healthier for men and less healthy for women. Seriously. I have a fabulous hubby who actually gets me to the gym every day, so perhaps I lucked out. Still, I never feel better than when I'm exercising regularly. Women of the world, let the gym not be the reign of the (smelly) muscle bulking men of the world! And let pilates class not be the reign of single ladies! 

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is never boring in the extended Mellon family. This year there were several highlights. First was saying Thanksgiving grace in the style of a stadium wave, where we each said what we were thankful for as part of the prayer as we did the wave. Then we had the discussion about which cabinet position you would like to have in Barack Obama's administration (I would like Housing and Urban Development). This was followed by a discussion of whether or not the MIT admissions dean who lied on her original resume for a job at MIT (a secretary job over 20 years ago) should have been fired, and whether or not its possible to go through life without lying (I am a firm believer that it is not possible).

I am thankful for some relatively basic stuff this year. I'm thankful for my husband and my family. I'm thankful for relatively good health (despite an annoying sinus infection I am currently fighting off). I'm thankful for the wonderful friends we have in Princeton and beyond, and the new jobs and babies and moves and marriages in their lives. I am thankful to be living in a house that I love (at least for the time being, pending any further developments in our landlord's foreclosure issue), in a neighborhood I love, in a city I love. I am thankful for silly things too: having cable again, the game of Puerto Rico, being able to walk or bike most places I go, nearing the end of my dissertation with a very supportive committee, sunny days, warm weather (which is sorely lacking currently), our super sweet kittens, good food, the wonderfully dry and sarcastic sense of humor shared by many of our friends, the new season of top chef, a properly insulated house, good medical insurance, that Americans have elected our first black president(!!!!!!!!!!!).... the list goes on. Some things large, other things small, all very good.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Nerd-tastic!



Stark Trek XI, due to come out in six months. Woot woot! Even Samir, the non-trekkie, thought the trailer looked good. And hey, it's directed by J. J. Abrams (of Felicity, Alias, and Lost tv shows), so that should also give it some creds.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

My election day

On election day I was phone banking from the Obama campaign office in my neighborhood. It was (is?) on South Street in Philadelphia, which is a very artsy, young, high energy neighborhood. The office was FULL of volunteers! They had so many volunteers we were able to knock on every sing door in our two wards (about 70 voting precincts) not once, but TWICE on election day, to make sure everyone got out to vote. There were boxes and boxes of Philadelphia soft pretzels (the good kind), cakes, brownies, pulled pork, apples, you name it! The place was just amazing!

I was at a table for awhile with three women in their fifties and sixties. They had all volunteered for Democratic campaigns for (literally) decades. I asked them if volunteering every election day was like this. They emphatically told me "NO!" They said there were so many more volunteers, so much more energy, so much more going on this election day, and how clear it was Obama was a community organizer. While there were lots of young people in the office, there were plenty of older people, people who drove in from Jersey to help out, blacks and whites... It was a great atmosphere.

I ran into a friend from college (who I haven't seen since college, but happened to come in to volunteer when I was also there). We decided to go out canvassing, and they sent us to a campaign office south and west, where they needed more volunteers. It was in a heavily black area. The office was much sparser, and had fewer volunteers, much less food, and fewer resources, but it had the same energy.

It was a truly inspiring afternoon/evening. We were told there wouldn't be a McCain supporter for miles, so knock on every door and make sure you get everyone to vote! Virtually everyone we talked to had already voted. People were so excited to see us and talk to us. Two women stopped us in the street and hugged us and were almost crying, telling us how wonderful this election was, and having us young people out, and a black man being elected. People who were hesitant to open their doors changed instantly when they found out we were from the Obama campaign. They chatted with us, were excited with us, cheered... you name it!

We went over to the polling place that was at the end of the block we were canvassing. They had music set up, drums and two guitar players, playing improv songs about Obama. People holding up Obama signs outside the polls got honks, yells, and cheers from cars going by. A big party truck came for a bit... It was a flatbed decked out in Obama signs, with a huge sound system, and a big Obama dance party on the back of the truck! It was seriously like one big party in the streets for the election.

How inspiring! I have no delusions that simply because we have a black president that race is no longer an issue in America. What I found so awesome (in the true sense of awe-some) was the excitement found among blacks-- blacks who have been disenfranchised, ignored, or uninspired to vote for so long. And here was an election that was so inspiring blacks turned out in droves to the polls, got their neighbors to vote, were watching closely for the results.

It wasn't just about race: as we might expect in a country with our racial issues, the black candidate had to run a campaign that was twice as good to win. But he did it, and that twice-as-good campaign inspired so many. Young people, also not big voters, out in droves not just to vote but to volunteer, make calls, knock on doors, have parties for Obama. New voters. Long-time republican women who quietly voted for Obama while their husbands probably voted for McCain. Entire swaths of voters in typically red states, that have now gone blue. This is Inspiration with a capital "I".

Strategists and republicans claim the tanked economy and an unpopular Bush tilted the election. I'm sure that might be true. But a tanked economy does not inspire, it scares. Obama's supporters are not an electorate that was scared: they are an electorate that is inspired.

I cried on election night. I cried because I couldn't believe we have finally elected a black man president. I was giddy because the past eight years are really coming to an end. I was in awe of the massive organization of volunteers and supporters. I was excited to see Philadelphia so ALIVE with the election, and then to see that reflected on the news in streets, parties, and cities around the country, right down to the hundreds of thousands of people in Grant Park. I was in shock that the never-ending election had finally ended. I was amazed at the varied people who had come together and supported Obama. There aren't enough adjectives or words to describe my overwhelming feelings for the outcome and historic election.

Monday, November 3, 2008

The Mortgage Crisis hits close to home!

We got a letter in the mail on Friday informing us that our landlord was in default on our mortgage, and all our rent should now be sent to the bank that has the mortgage. After much freaking out, frantic phone calls (our rent was due Saturday, and we didn't want to give it to our landlord if he was just going to run away with it!), and investigation, we discovered this was true. Our landlord is indeed in default, and the bank has exercised its Agreement of Rents and Leases, which means it can recoup mortgage default losses by collecting our rent instead of letting our landlord collect it.

We could potentially be evicted if our landlord has this place foreclosed on. Now wouldn't that be just wonderful??

Don't be fooled that this stuff doesn't hit close to home... it has literally HIT our home!!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

The bibliophiles in our home...

It's not just me and Samir.

Messalina, enjoying our books.


Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Yummy food

We love to cook and eat fresh food. We almost never go out to eat, because we'd rather make something for ourselves, avoid the excess oil in most restaurant food, and use as many veggies as we can. Since we live just two blocks from all the fresh produce we could ever want, it's not a very tough job.

Samir is a full vegetarian, or as they say in India, "pure veg". I am almost a vegetarian. I haven't come up with a term that fits me well yet. Convenience vegetarian, ambivalent vegetarian, almost vegetarian... basically, I never cook meat, and usually don't order meat. But maybe once every few months I give in and eat some meat. (I also don't actively check everything for potential meat, so I probably eat a bunch of fish sauce and gelatin unknowingly). I definitely think there are so many great reasons to be a vegetarian; I just can't seem to kick the habit all the way.

Anyways, this means we cook wonderful vegetarian food most of the time. I have been meaning to put together a set of recipes for people who want to try eating vegetarian.

Here's one of our favorite tofu recipes, from Martha Stewart. (I'm just posting the link because I can't get the formatting to work in here). We usually also make some pasta and peanut sauce to go with it. So yummy...

Sauteed Tofu with Bitter Greens

Monday, October 20, 2008

Septuple your money!

This summer my parents had their annual week at the Jersey shore. We went down for two nights at the end of the week, and our friends J&J joined us the last night. We had grand plans for mini-golf, ice cream, and the beach, but all was foiled with the approach of some hurricane whose name I can't remember. 

Instead, we headed to Atlantic City! I had never been, and was super excited. We hit up the Borgata, home of Jeff's gambling addictions. After visitng the vast poker room, we unanimously agreed that there is a great ethnographic dissertation waiting to be written on casinos. Unfortunately, since I suck at poker, I believe the only role I could fill is being a "Borgata babe", the slang for "models who serve." (They are officially "models who serve" so that the Borgata can enforce strict weight and looks-based hiring and firing policies.) To the right, see their official uniform. We did watch for a few minutes and figure out that the "models who serve" were probably making a good $60 an hour, but even that couldn't entice me to sign up for the position. 

We played some slots, and the $10 Samir and I invested became $78! Yes, we Septupled our money! We were on a big high after that. I really wanted to purchase the purple Borgata leisure suit, as it was priced EXACTLY the amount of our winnings, and I thought that just had to be an omen. Samir vetoed the idea (probably only because the leisure suit wouldn't fit him, only me). 

J&J, Samir, and our winnings

Friday, October 17, 2008

Apples, apples, apples

We went apple picking last weekend with Samir's cousin Vipul. The orchard was a crowded mess of families taking every possible posed picture of their children in the apple trees. We picked 20 pounds, which have thus far been made into apple crisp. Today I may try apple butter for the first time. 



My next post will have to be something about this urban world we actually live in, since the last few posts could confuse someone into thinking we live out in the trees. I think we have literally one tree on our block, and it's a short one, more shrub-like than tree-like. 

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Fall in NJ

We headed out to a state forest in New Jersey to do some camping with our Princeton Pack a few weekends ago. We had a lovely time, although New Jersey showed its true colors in all the litter we found in the state forest. 

Above, a to-remain-nameless man (protecting his identity from his wife who wants a baby soon) carries a discerning Z on our hike. Z's lovely mommy smiles, having pawned off her child on the happy-to-help friends. 

Hiking...
And deciding to reject our original hiking plan once we learned it was ADA accessible. As those in our 20s and 30s, we decided we needed to be just a little bit more hardcore. Instead, we went on the never ending death march, 3.5 hours of walking to... well, nowhere.

Charles checks out the cranberry bog. I didn't see any real cranberries, but that's okay.

Our campsite.

Sadly, there aren't any pictures of the main, most fun event... the campfire! Nothing beats camping with friends, hanging out around a campfire.

Also not pictured: Samir, nameless man, and I packed into that small dome tent you see in the background. We thought it was cold enough to warrant packing in together. We mistakenly put Samir, the shortest, in the middle, so nameless man and I were on the edges curling up to fit in.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Sunday biking

Today Samir and I went for a long Sunday bike ride. We started by going to Whole Foods to get some good picnic food, namely Seeduction bread. We then headed to the Schuylkill River path that starts at Market, a few miles from our apartment. We rode along the Schuylkill past the art museum, boathouse row, and into Fairmount Park. It was a beautiful day! We stopped along the way to have our picnic, and we played some frisbee. We continued until we found a bridge where we could cross over the river, and we did to find (to our delight) a rode closed off to cars, open only to bikers, pedestrians, and roller bladers. It was a marvelous ride for a few hours! The leaves are just barely starting to change colors, so we will have to head back out next weekend when things will be in full fall splendor. 

On the way back, we stopped at Naval Square, a big new condominium complex that was made from a gutted and redone Naval Academy. We've been curious what the places are like, because they look a bit out of place to the rest of Philadelphia. It turns out the place is a Toll House development in the middle of Philadelphia, and all the condos are like condo McMansions, complete with jacuzzi tubs, walk in bathrooms, and the most miniature kitchens (Samir says people that afford to live there probably aren't cooking much). It was interesting... Let's just say we're not moving in any day soon.

Google maps tells us it was 16 miles we biked total. What a lovely Sunday afternoon! 

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

The election

I can't really give any real thoughts on this election, because I get too worked up about everything. I love Obama. I think he is charismatic, different, and smart. Even if he's not experienced, he's smart enough to surround himself with great advisors, so I think he'll do a fabulous job. This election excites me because I finally have a candidate I really WANT, as opposed to a choice of the better of two mediocres.

I actually don't have much against McCain. He's just not interesting, the same old same old, is also chronologically REALLY old... He reminds me of pretty much every presidential candidate I've seen in my lifetime. Not really exciting. That same old mediocre.

Sarah Palin is a different story. I find her a supremely abysmal candidate for VP. Unlike Obama, she doesn't have an education, background, or disposition that proves to me she is qualified or knowledgeable to be (vice) president, or even appoint good advisors to help her through the job. It has disaster written all over it from miles away! 

As a small factoid, my mom ran for supervisor of our small suburban town outside Philadelphia. She lost the election, and got more votes than Sarah Palin did in the mayoral election of Wasilla. 

So, here's my last word on the election... The Disney movie that could be made about Sarah Palin. I have watched this a dozen times and it never ceases to amuse me. 


Wednesday, October 1, 2008

I've been marked!

Email I received today that has been confirmed to have NOT gone out to the entire student body.

Dear Student:

Health Services has reviewed your medical record and we feel that it would be most beneficial for you to receive the influenza vaccine.

Please call to make a flu shot appointment or you may also get a free Flu Shot at Flu Fest in Frist – November 5, 6 and 10 .

Sincerely yours,
Helen Ackley RN,APN,C

So, most students get a mass email from the university inviting them to get a Flu Shot at the student center. They have three days where they set up a massive clinic and give out hundreds of shots for free.

Basically, someone reviewed my medical chart and decided that I'm sickly, and therefore should get an extra email to be SURE I get a shot, even coming in to get one instead of going to the free flu fest. Awesome.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Our wonderful neighborhood

We happened upon our neighborhood when seeing apartments in Philly. We had planned on living in center city, and mostly looked at places there. One landlord had a great apartment in a crappy neighborhood, and he happened to have this place also. He brought us to the apartment, and I immediately fell in love with the neighborhood!

Our neighborhood is the Italian market area. You can tell it once was fully Italian: the area is full of small Italian restaurants, Catholic churches named after Italian saints, Italian flags, and the metal window awnings characteristic of Italian neighborhoods. The past few years, it's changed quite a bit. Now, it's majority Hispanic (and that is overwhelmingly Mexican) and Vietnamese. To our right is a Mexican family which operates a fabulous bodega two doors down from us-- it's open until almost 11, and has all our usual needs. Plus, it brings great life to our block, with Mexican families always heading in, catching up outside, and their kids playing. On our left is a Vietnamese family, and across the street are also Vietnamese families. The diversity is felt throughout the area, with lots of Mexican shops, Italian bakeries and restaurants, and Vietnamese grocery stores and cafeterias. A block from us is a little Vietnamese place that sells Vietnamese sandwiches and pearl milk tea!! It's wonderful! It is the neighborhood I have always wanted to live in. 

But oh, it gets so much better! Two blocks north on our street and you hit the true Italian market: a curbside market where colorful awnings cover the sidewalk vendors selling all sorts of fresh produce, fish, meat, and cheese at unbelievable prices. We easily go once or twice a week and get such wonderful fresh fruit and veggies! The area around is also peppered with cute cafes, pastry shops, and restaurants-- it's a brunch lover's paradise. Lest I forget to mention, across the street from us is a Rita's Water Ice (ice cream shop), and on the corner is a CVS and ACME supermarket. Can I tell you how great it is to realize you need veggie burgers, and to take all of 8 minutes to go out, get them, and be back? Heavenly!

If you take our street south instead of north, you enter the heart of the East Passyunk Business Improvement District. Two blocks that way is our gym, which is surrounded by smoothie places, coffee shops, and a pub on all sides. There's a little plaza with a weekly farmer's market, as well as tons of good Italian restaurants, two dance studios, a hardware store... loverly. 

We couldn't ask for a better location! We adore it. I haven't even mentioned the library and post office just two short blocks away, or the plethora of festivals always going on. Truly, it was love at first sight that has not disappointed!

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Our little babes!

No, I am definitely NOT talking about PEOPLE babies!!

These are Messalina (grey) and Julius (orange) Cesar! We thought we were getting two sisters, but it turns out Julius was a boy (thus requiring a name change). They are incredibly sweet kittens, as evidenced by this picture. They always want to snuggle, cuddle, and play.

















Unfortunately, one of their favorite amusements is our bike. They like chasing the spokes, which makes bringing the bike in and out quite difficult.

I am currently attempting to train the kittens to use the toilet instead of litter. I've read about it on the internet, and there are lots of people claiming they have done it. Some friends of ours think that these stories are mere urban legend. Hey, if I succeed, I don't mind being a legend!!

Monday, September 15, 2008

City biking

I am a city cycler now! After a lovely evening that turned into a night that turned into a slumber party with brunch in Princeton with our friends J&J, we headed to the local bike shop. I considered a foldable bike, which are very cool new bikes that fold up very small so you can carry it in a bag, on the train, on vacation, wherever! They are nice in cities because you can fold it up and take it on the subway. In the end, I got a usual hybrid bike.

Sunday, less than 24 hours after purchasing said bike, Samir and I rode the Bike Philly event. It was a non-competitive ride through the city, with all the streets shut down. We rode by city hall, Independence Hall, Penn's landing, the art museum, Fairmount park, and the zoo. Besides enjoying the great weather, we found some wonderful new picnic spots and running trails in Fairmount park. We did 20 miles, which only was hard when it got hilly at the end. (Who wants to end going UP a hill?!?) Including our commute to and from the start, we did 27 miles. That is more than I have ever biked!

Today I cycled to the doctor, then to Penn. And I only wiped out once, due to attempting a sharp turn to avoid a UPS truck. (If I had just stopped, all would have been fine). Goal tomorrow: no wipe outs!

Friday, June 27, 2008

A new obsession

Check this out:
Budget Hero

It's a game by American Public Radio where you can make your own federal budget. You get to choose goals (like economic stimulus, energy independence, health and well-being) and see if you can meet your goals with your budget! You get to do stuff with taxes, social security, defense, etc. We have tons of fun with it.

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

A speech we love!



Obama gave this speech at the Constitution Center in Philadelphia after a few days of people taunting him over his relationship with his former pastor who had made some inflammatory remarks.

I love this speech. I think it is a bold and brave move for Obama to not only rebuke Wright's comments, but to take head on questions of race in America. Racial issues have been the elephant in the American room for much of this election, and Obama did not look at just race in this election cycle or this campaign. Instead, he took a broad look at racism throughout American history and pervading US society. His refresher course on discrimination against black Americans was spot on. (As someone who researchs racial inequality, I can tell you citations for many of the facts he states about blacks being denied loans, mortgages, housing, jobs, etc. His facts are right on). His take on black anger was fair and level headed, and he followed it by a take on white bitterness. He was balanced but not politician "smooth". Instead, the speech was decidedly honest and bold.

I applaud Obama for making this speech. I believe it shows he really is concerned about true issues. He could have just distanced himself from his former pastor and rebuffed his comments; instead, he tackled the issues at the heart of the matter: the racial divide. I believe he is a candidate that believes change is possible for our country. I am incredibly pessimistic about race, studying lasting inequalities. I do think Barack gives us a chance to start moving forward, by admitting there is a race problem and illuminating the many parts of it.

More than ever, I now wholeheartedly want this man to be president of our country. He is eloquent, thoughtful, concerned, inspiring, and deep into the issues, not into politicking. This is the kind of integrity we want: a man who does not disown his former pastor who is like family to him, but instead rebukes the bad and loves the good in him. This is what we want in our leaders: discerning women and men who do not throw out the baby with the bathwater, but face the world with courage, balance, and bravery.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Oral surgery fun!

A chronicle of my oral surgery experiences for you to enjoy:

1. Age 5, removal of an extra permanent tooth. (Like, shouldn't exist extra). Took place in the hospital, and overall I hardly remember it. I do remember the nurses lying to me that the sleeping gas had different "flavors" and the bubble gum flavor was coming... Please, honey.

2. Age 14, surgery to expose a tooth that is horizontal in the top of my mouth due to extra tooth (the one removed at age 5). Said tooth is in the roof of my mouth. I opt for local anesthesia because my surgery is the same day as student council elections that I'm running in. It was a painful day! More painful when we went to the orthodontist, and the tooth wasn't exposed enough to put a bracket on for braces. So, I had to have the surgery re-done. Yikes!

3. Summer after junior year in college, wisdom teeth removal. Excruciating pain on bottom lower tooth. Return visit shows I have exposed bone. Ouch! Clears up without a problem.

4. Last week, surgery to remove a bottom left molar. What a saga of a tooth, starting with an emergency root canal the week of our engagement party, followed by a retreatment, followed by dental insurance troubles... and more pain. Finally got the sucker out of there when doc #3 tells me the tooth is cracked, probably in the process of retreating the root canal. Nice.

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Why end with India??

Sadly, we are both back in the states now. Not sad that we're back together after a three-week across the globe absence. Sad that India is gone! Alas.

Still, the end of this India trip seems no reason to end the blog. We'll keep it up! Stay tuned.

Monday, January 28, 2008

Dance contest win

In case you were skeptical, here is the photo of Samir and I winning second place in the dance competition. We are being presented a silk sari by the owner of the hotel that hosted the huge party. Definitely one of the top ten moments in India!

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Chamundi Hill

These are pictures from Chamundi Hill in Mysore. that has a famous temple at the top. You're never allowed to take photos inside the temples, so the outside would have to do. We went up by bus. There is a staircase of 1000 stairs up the hill. Pilgrims climb up the steps to the temple, but we decided to trek down them. By the time we got 1/3 of the way down, it was dark already. There was a lone autorickshaw that we asked to take us down. He already had two passengers, but agreed to take us too. Samir sat with him in the front, and I sat with the unsuspecting by friendly couple who let us ride with them.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Selections of Agra





Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Crazy for kurtas

Kurtas are a type of Indian shirt. There are both both men's and women's kurtas in a variety of styles. Traditionally they would be long, as in down to your knees or so. Now there are also short kurtas (mid-thigh) and super short kurtas (western shirt length).

I adore kurtas. I think they are in many ways the ideal women's wear. I have purchased several kurtas here, and they have quickly become my favorite clothing. I wear them probably two-thirds of the time, in both long and short sleeves.

Let me extol the virtues of the kurta. First, everyday cotton kurtas are the perfect temperature. They are thin, breathable cotton and lots of air can circulate, so they don't get hot. On the other hand, they are easily layered and so they aren't too cold either.

Second, I specifically think kurtas are FANTASTIC women's wear! They cover your butt! They are flattering on pretty much all body types. I no longer am constantly worried about my underwear showing when I sit thanks to low riding pants (I still find low riding pants most comfortable, but the kurta covers the gap, so no problem). I don't worry about my shirt riding up when I have a backpack or large purse and am walking a lot. Kurtas actually make me feel pretty feminine, too, because a kurta reminds me of a little dress. I love it! There are formal kurtas and less formal kurtas. I have even seen women working out in kurtas. Finally, working out without worrying what your butt looks like in exercise shorts!

Samir loves super short kurtas because of how comfortable they are.

I am totally wearing kurtas back in America. Maybe the trend will catch on....

Here are Samir and I in kurtas in Jaipur (mine is a long one, his is in the shortest length one. The medium length is my favorite, but I have no good pictures of any).

Monday, January 14, 2008

Jasvilas... can I move in??

I figured it deserved a whole post. Our favorite hotel of the trip was in Jaipur, where we dashed off for just over 48 hours right before Samir left. It was a fabulous two days, and I'll post more about it later.

Jas Vilas is the name of the place, and it's owned by the kindest older gentleman who spent several years working in the US, and is always happy to discuss current events, America, India, and everything in between. The place was built by his father in the 1950s.

In India, there is a concept of a guest house. A guest house is usually small, and more or less like a cheap version of a bed and breakfast (usually cheaper than a hotel). Jas Vilas is in between a hotel and guest house, and we adored it. Just nine rooms, fabulous service, delicious breakfast, gorgeous facilities.

Picture of the balconies from the courtyard


Picture from below the balcony


Samir working on the balcony which overlooks a crystal clear pool, beautifully painted wall, and lovely garden. All the guests would sit out and drink tea or work or read on the balconies.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

The joy of shopping in India

Shopping in India is completely different than shopping in the United States. When you walk in a store, a clerk comes and asks what you are looking for. They then whisk you off to the correct part of the shop, if it's a big shop, or sit you down, if it's a small shop. They bring everything to you. You want a red sari? They will bring you sari after sari. At the best places to shop, the salesman ask what you don't like about each one, and adjust what they are showing you. (This doesn't have to do with the quality of the shop, just the quality of the salesman). It's amazing. This one is too heavy of material? They show you lighter ones. This one has too many other colors? They show you plainer ones.

This is not just in sari shops. Even in many western clothing shops, clerks do the same thing. They pull off the racks exactly what they think you will like. They ask if you want things to match, like jewelry or shoes. Yesterday, a clerk at one store offered to take Samir to a shoe store where they could make shoes to match an outfit he was buying. This kind of shopping can only be done with a hired personal shopper in the US.

In addition to all this, usually you get to sit while they show you everything. They inevitably offer you coffee, tea, water, or soda, and often also offer cookies. It's all much more relaxing than American shopping. Samir and I both love it.

This is not only at clothing stores. I went to an intellectual book store with a list of books I can't get in the US. I just wanted them to order the books. The kindly owner did not just order the books. He searched his store (quite literally, because organization isn't really a characteristic of Indian book shops) for any book that may be of interest to me, bringing me stacks and stacks of books on slums, cities, policy, health, environment, caste... It was amazing. Then, he also promised to keep an eye out for any other titles I might be interested in. Wow.

Here are some shopping photos of ours....

Samir getting a corduroy blazer in Jaipur. He picked out the fabric, they cut it and took his measurements, and the next day we came back to find a beautiful, perfectly fitting blazer! All for less than $40. That's what shopping in the bazaars will get you!

Discard pile of lenghas from a very rich family....

Sales people showing a lengha.

Samir sipping coffee at a clothing shop.

Saturday, January 12, 2008

Bangalore

We spent some time in Bangalore a bit back where I was meeting people. Bangalore is a city of around 6 million people. It's a big IT hub, and it's really hustling and bustling with shopping, restaurants, cafes, bars, and clubs. It's what we expected South Delhi to be like. Very happening, hip, and alive at night.

Bangalore is in South India, which has the reputation of being more egalitarian gender wise as well as more safe for foreigners. We believe it! We saw many more women than we ever see in Delhi, where the sex ratio on the streets can sometimes be as bad as one or two women for every fifty men we see. In Bangalore, the women were out in droves, and many more were in western clothing.

When we got to the Bangalore airport, we paid for a pre-paid taxi to our hotel. As we walked to the taxis, a young man asked if we were looking for the pre-paid taxis and offered to take us there. As Delhi skeptics, we harshly refused and kept walking. (In Delhi, people like this are everywhere, always trying to scam you). We found out once we reached the stand that the young man actually worked there and was actually trying to help us. When we got in the car he said, "Here, Bangalore, no cheat!" Oops!

Bangalore is INCREDIBLY polluted. In Delhi, all the autorickshaws and buses run on compressed natural gas. Not so in Bangalore. Bad traffic, a million cars, and SO MUCH pollution. Really gross when walking or sitting in stopped traffic in an autorickshaw.

Here are some photos from our time there.

Samir in front of our favorite hotel with the BEST restaurant in all of India... this assessment was confirmed by the long lines of Bangalore middle and upper class families waiting to eat there every night, as well as a couple of friends we made who were from Chennai/New York. The thalis are to die for...

Samir in Cubbon Park (a huge municipal park complete with nearly an entire bamboo forest). I have convinced him to reanct a Bollywood movie dance scene. He has gotten much more confident about his dancing since our big dance contest win in Mysore.


No city is complete without some shopping! We got some great bargains in Bangalore, like you can't imagine! We bought tons of clothing for our non-Indian family and friends for our wedding in Bangalore. Here I am trying on a lengha. It was overpriced, and did not make the cut, despite Samir's love for orange.


And no city is complete without a trip to the bazaars. Bangalore's bazaars were unfortunately disappointing, save the incredibly cheap duffel bags we bought to transport all our purchases back to Delhi.

Monday, January 7, 2008

Monday, lazy Monday

This morning we had a hardcore work morning. Phone calls, writing proposals, statistical work... I am trying to apply for a grant with a Feb 15 deadline, so there's much to be done both here and stateside!

We set out around noon to do some errands for me: buying some academic books not available in the US, visiting the Indian census bureau to get ahold of some materials also not available in the US. All of our errands were thwarted! Why? Because most of India is closed on Mondays! We're not sure why, but it's true. The academic bookstore recommended by my advisor here is in a huge fancy shopping complex, and everything there was closed for Monday.

Slightly frustrated, we had a nice late lunch at a place called Moti Mahal, relatively famous. Samir tried his first Paneer Tikka, which he enjoyed thoroughly. We later went to central Delhi, drank tea, poked in some shops, and ate a wonderful home cooked meal at our guest house. Mmm....

Friday, January 4, 2008

New Years Wonder!

Samir and I spent New Year's Eve at a huge party thrown by our hotel. They transformed their parking lot into a big outdoor party for 400+ people. Buffet dinner, DJ, dance performances, contests... you name it!

Samir and I entered the couples dance competition. We danced for six minutes to a medley of Bollywood favorites. We actually weren't sure it was a competition until halfway through, so we held back a bit at the beginning. In the end, they announced the judges needed more time, so there was a two minute long dance off.

The results came in.... Samir and I won SECOND PLACE!!! It definitely was all Samir-- He pulled out all the stops and really went for it! We also had some great couple moves that I think were duely appreciated by the judges. The emcee introduced us, took our pictures, and gave us a silk sari prize. Exciting! We were the only foreigners in the contest, and I swear there was some glares from some diva Indian women who had been clearly angling for the prize since the beginning of the evening.

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Marigolds, marigolds, more marigolds

In honor of the title of our blog, some shots from around India of marigolds and other flowers.


Wedding garlands strung with flowers in Mumbai
A man with marigold strings in Mysore



We got suckered in to buying a garland to put in my hair. But for a quarter, we didn't really mind!All sorts of flowers in Mysore...


Marigold garlands hung above a door in Delhi